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I saw this on Weddingbee and just had to share. How fabulous! Amy is such a lucky girl.

Turn your speakers up.  Totally appropriate for cubicle listening.

Of all the friends J and I invited to our wedding, only one person hasn’t sent in her RSVP card yet. Unfortunately, the deadline to RSVP was May 1. We have to assume that she isn’t coming; this person’s ex is going to be at the wedding, and she probably doesn’t want to come for fear of it being uncomfortable for her. Whether I think this is a valid reason is irrelevant. It’s only polite to RSVP.

I should also mention that this person didn’t RSVP for my bridal shower (which she attended) nor my bachelorette party (which is this Saturday night). I suppose it’s possible that she is just SO busy that she can’t spare a minute to check off a box and throw a pre-stamped envelope in the mail or to pick up the phone and dial a local number… Yes, that must be it. I’d rather think that she has no time in her schedule to RSVP than that she just doesn’t care enough to RSVP.

However, it appears that not RSVP-ing has become somewhat of an epidemic in today’s world. Is Evite to blame? Writer Alexandra Jacobs seems to think so. In this article for The New York Times Style Magazine, she writes:

The practice of replying to invitations, let alone actually showing up to parties as promised, has become as antiquated as the chimney sweep, and much messier. We can blame this, like practically everything else bad in the modern world, on the rise of electronic communication. There is the dreaded, inertia-triggering Evite. ‘‘You can see who’s viewed it but not responded,’’ fumed one popular Park Slope hostess — via e-mail, of course. ‘‘Would it kill you to just put ‘Maybe’? Are you waiting to see what better Evites will come along?’’

I suppose that when an invitation is sent in an email, it’s easy to ignore it or to forget to respond, especially if the person’s in-box is overflowing. And Evite invitations offer a “maybe” option, allowing the guest to not have to commit either way. So now when people receive an actual piece of paper inviting them to an event, and there’s no “maybe” box to check off, they must not know what to do — so they don’t do anything. Social etiquette, what? Make a decision — yes or no!

Bottom line: Guests are invited to events for a reason — the host would like them to come — and should be courteous enough to let the host know whether they plan on attending. It’s especially rude to not respond to wedding invitation, and a bride should not have to worry about tracking down an M.I.A. guest two weeks before the big day.

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I’m so frustrated with myself. Yesterday, out of sheer stress, I basically chewed my thumbnail down to nothing. I really wanted to avoid having to wear fake nails for the wedding, but I just can’t stop biting my nails! Even a coat of Orly’s No Bite polish can’t stop me. All of my nails are short (meaning they don’t extend past the tip of my finger), but how ridiculous will I look with 8 short nails and 2 REALLY short nails in all of my wedding photos? (My left index fingernail is also prone being bitten.)

Does anybody know how to make fingernails grow ridiculously fast? And if you were me, would you get your mani/pedi the Friday or the Saturday afternoon before the wedding? I’m afraid that if I get them done on Friday, they could chip by Sunday… but if I go on Saturday between the Aufruf in the morning and the “celebration dinner” in the evening, I might be crunched for time.

Um yeah, I’m starting to freak out… And don’t even get me started on what color I should wear on my hands and feet! Ugg…

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My left eyelid has been twitching on and off since the end of last week. It doesn’t hurt, but it is very annoying. Of course I had to Google “eye twitching” to make sure that the twitching wasn’t indicative of anything serious. According to About.com, involuntary eyelid muscle contraction is called myokymia. The condition occurs and disappears spontaneously, but can sometimes last up to three weeks. Frequent contributing factors include too much caffeine, high levels of anxiety, fatigue, stress, overwork, and a lack of sleep.

Let’s see…

Anxiety — check!

Fatigue — check!

Stress — check!

Lack of sleep — check!

I really hope the spasms go away before the wedding. I don’t want to be distracting by a twitching eyelid while I’m standing under the chuppah next to J trying to remember my vows (which I still need to write).

Just two weeks now until J and I fly back to NJ for the wedding! It seems like just yesterday we had a month to go, and now the wedding is practically around the corner. But before the big day arrives, I still have one more trip to make back East for my final dress fitting and bachelorette party.

Time is really FLYING by… (sorry, couldn’t resist)

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